We have had a lot of dog stories over the years, some of them funny and some of them tragic. This one ranks right up there with the tragic story of losing Melanie's beloved dog Chip several years ago. We lost our dog Stitch yesterday. We were gone over the weekend to Show Low for the 4th and when we came home we found that she had been badly injured in a fight with one of the bigger dogs. We had Steph and Curt's dog here also while they are in Utah. I knew the minute we walked in the door and she wasn't there waiting that something was wrong. We don't know what happened and I will spare the gruesome details by just saying it was not fixable and money is tight right now. So Ron got the very unpleasant task of digging a grave in 110 degree heat and putting her down. This has been very hard on us as Stitch was part of our family for over 6 years. She started out as Brian's dog but he was single and soon found that he couldn't keep her where he lived and she came to live with us. He continued to have a very close relationship with her and he is heartbroken also. I find comfort in knowing that she had a good life here and Ron would say I spoiled her. She was a good natured dog and her only downfall was that she would aggravate the bigger dogs and not back down from a fight and it ended up costing her her life. Some people say that having animals is like a heartache waiting to happen. Sooner or later that is true. But it is the joy they bring you in between that makes it worthwhile. Those that are not dog lovers have a hard time understanding the bond that develops and the pain you feel at their loss. Stitch had such unconditional love and devotion and when I was gone she would drag one of my shoes or an article of clothing to the top of the stairs and lay on it. When I came home from a trip she would sleep in my suitcase as if to say take me with you next time. She would jump in the bathtub and that was my signal to come and turn on the faucet for her to get a drink. She was very gentle with the grandkids and would let them maul her without so much as a growl. I know she was only a dog but I loved her and will miss her a lot. (The only thing I will not miss is her shedding!) I have such a tender heart for animals and although at times it causes me much grief I wouldn't change it. My sister-in-law Lindy and my brother Terry recently lost dogs too and my heart goes out to them as I know what they are feeling. They say bad things come in 3's and I hope that means nothing else will happen. I don't think I could handle it! I know this was a long post and not easy to read but it was very cathartic for me so thanks for listening.
Bye Stitchy, thanks for the memories!
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I know stitchy was just a dog, but she was also a great friend. She brought me many years of comfort and happiness while I had her. I still can't face reality and come to terms that she is gone. There isn't a dog out there that can ever replace her. I will forever miss your companionship. R.I.P Stitchy. We love you.
Paula, I'm so sorry about your loss. Yes, it is a dog, BUT she also was a part of your heart. About 3 years ago, I lost my dog (she had been living with my parents because of my mission and apartment dwelling--but she was ALWAYS happy to see her girl) She too was a great companion and friend--and she shed like mad too! Know you're in my thoughts....
Paula- I was so sad to see your blog post and read about poor stichy. I am so sorry for you and the family. Having to put down Carver was one of the hardest things we've had to get through so I know what a difficult time this must be for you. I will keep you in my prayers. I love you!
I saw your tears as I read. So sorry for the loss. I do know how much all the dogs mean to you. You have a great capacity for taking really good care of them. Stich will have nothing but good memories of his home on earth.
mom i can't handle reading your blog anymore if your going to post such sad posts.. so i (being part of the jennings) bawl like a big baby in front of the computer at work and everyone just stares at me. Im so sad stitchy is gone and can only imagine what you and bri feel :( Sorry I didnt give you more attention stitchy, i love and will miss yoU!
Oh Paula I am so sorry for your loss I can totally relate we have had our fair share. You are a great doggie mom and Stitch will be missed but I am sure that she is happy and always was happy so sorry.
I keep meaning to leave a comment for you. I know it's been a huge struggle for you as well as Brian to lose sweet Stitchy. It's been really hard on me too. She meant so much to Annie as well and that breaks my heart for all of you. Thank you for all you did these last three years to provide such a great life for her. I hope things get a little easier in the near future cuz as far as I'm concerned it's only been getting harder so far. It's more real each day. I hate it. We love you!
This post made me cry and I already heard the story and knew Stitch was gone.
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